I'm not for sure I totally agree with this but I love it anyways :) and when you figure out which one it is, you will know what to do for each person.
When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is ususally to meet a need you have expressed. They have come to help you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support to maybe even help your physically, emotionally or spiritually. It may even seem like a Godsend and they are! They are there for the reason you need them to be.
Without any wrong doing on your part, or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they may just walk away. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand or sometimes they might die. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our wish was fulfilled, and their work is done. Your need has been answered and now it is time to move on.
When people come into your life for a SEASON, maybe it is your turn to share, grow or learn. They bring you an experience of peace or make you laguh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it because it's real but for only a season.
LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons; things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.
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